While being alone seems to be quite miserable at times, if you look at it hard enough, much of our realizations are done when we are alone with our thoughts. We make our most important decisions in our heads while we are alone. It is the basis of building our character. If we can find the strength to be comfortable and happy when we are alone, not only will we grow to be stronger people, but we will have more time to our thoughts and more power to express our ideas and not be swayed by others choices.

“The person who has not learned to be happy and content while being completely alone for an hour, a day, or a week, has missed life’s greatest serenity.”

–H. Clay Tale

Does it mean that those who are doing Yoga in this world are attained with the above mentioned 3 healths? No. When we find hardly people following the discipline involved in Yoga, how can they project this alternative way among world? Do you agree that the trained professionals follow all the discipline of this alternative? If you agree, then it cannot be propagated to the entire world unless and until they become disciplined. Let me come to the next fact. Yoga has reached and discussed widely for the recent couple of decades. Even it was found in ancient times, it grabbed its strength in recent times. Why does this Yoga was not popular on ancient times or even before 20 years? Does it mean that people lived before 20 years didn’t have any tension, stress? Why they were not aware of Yoga when they had tensions? To explain this, I would like to go for the next fact.

Who were the perfect Yoga masters? Who did Yoga and followed the rules? May be I can put this question in this way. Why was yoga propagated, practiced and preached by only people who do not involve themselves in physical labor? Why it was not preached by someone who involved in physical labor? 70% of people in this world are involved in physical labor. And people who are mastered in Yoga have only Yoga to do and nothing else to do like others. That is the reason, they can talk anything about peace and tension. When people engage themselves in work, obviously they get mental pressure and right from ancient times people have these pressures. And Yoga was not the only way to get rid of these pressures. How did they got their peace? Hope you could have an answer by this time for the question raised in your mind.

When no one is following this alternative way of living art, how can they simply propagate it to world? I am not protesting against Yoga. My strong view is, we are all involved in physical labor and we cannot show or attain full efficiency in Yoga. The people who dedicate themselves to Yoga only can attain its original pleasure(?). So, I don’t believe in any short camps where they say 2 times a day makes your body pure. How many are following that 2 times a day practice? If they do, their regular work gets affected and this oath fades out in 10 days. At last they probably regret why they cant continue and never take initiatives to continue. Human mind works like that. Regular work? Yes, you do all have some regular work in your day today life and this alternate way of leaving is added up extra in your leisure time.

I understand that you all have this question in mind that only people who dedicate can do Yoga and others can’t? My answer would be yes. You cannot master in Yoga or attain the 3 healths in Yoga within a short campaign. Yoga is a living art and it will not be accomplished in short time. So, the camps and 2 times practice makes your metabolism, health everything good. Thats all. It do not help your body or mind in any other way. But all these can be done with simple ways. Regulate your food habits, sleep for 10 hours and say me the difference in your health. If you follow these 2 simple things, your metabolism gets pured naturally without any alternate ways.

There are some private organizations who advertise people that they will teach the art of living. Now, just remember what I have told. They will conduct a initial camp with basic aasanas. Then they will definitely will call for further campaigns to attain its full efficiency. And those who say “No” are explained with negative aspects. They will say, you need to continue for 2nd campaign for the further level of purification. Why don’t they say this first when they initially advertise? When you say there is more levels, people will think hard to join. So, they break up this into modules and advertise. I would call this as wrong way of mobilizing a living art. Just attending one campaign and not others is no way to help your health.

Now, the main fact.This is my personal perspective and I strongly rely on this. Yoga controls your anger and gives peace, reduces tension. Anger: More Powerful Than Desire. This is how anger is defined. When you do Yoga, it will reduce your anger, frustration, tension, stress and day by day Yoga eradicates all the above mentioned habits. Wow, what a life you will have. No, it is not correct. There is perfect example I can come with. Think a person can eat a banana only if he can walk for some kilometers and climb high. How can that person eat a banana regularly? That person will definitely gets bugged and he should have invented wheels to take him to the place. So, my point is when a person gets irritated or bugged, then only new inventions are made! Creations are born! And if Yoga kills this irritation, then probably he would have lost his appetite and stayed calm. There wouldn’t be an Edison or Fermi or Deere. They all became the greatest inventors only when they got disappointed or bugged in finishing a task which was hard! Their name stand among a crore of peoples and those crore of people managed their anger, frustration, tension and stress. I want my name to stand among a crore of people rather than being one among those crore of people. But, I didn’t mean that people who control their anger did not succeed in their life.

Take yourself as a best example. (People can link this example according to their profession like editing, journalism, etc.) You are writing a code for a program and it throws with minor warnings and error. Do you get irritated? Yes, out of your irritation, you will think hard and will try with the new code to fix it. This is how Edison, Einstein, Ford or anyone would have thought and ended up with their inventions. Do not get compromised with your faults. Inventions and sophistications where born and made only by the people who felt angry. Instead of this, you control your irritation or anger what would have happened? You would have been in a mind set saying that the code has only minimal warnings and it will not affect. This was the difference I am trying to point everyone out!.

The last fact I would like to point out is Yoga will purify your metabolism. Does it mean that you can eat anything and do Yoga, it will cure and purify? If Yoga is such a miraculous medicine, then one can lead the life in any manner.But it is not a miraculous medicine. You should control your food habits and regulate your timing to have food. If you normally do this, you will be healthy and Yoga do not make miracles with this normal agenda. In fact before writing this post I discussed with one of my senior friend. I was asking him about Guru Jaggi Vasudev and his speech. It seems that he attended sometime ago. The reply I got from him made me like even he can talk the way what Guru Jaggi Vasudev did.

He pointed out the ambiance created over there. A mild sitar music and hall covered with white cloths. Thats really a peaceful ambiance created. Then he told that if he had talked in such a hall, probably everyone will listen him too. Speaking cleverly is important and thats how they survive. I simple threw my next question saying to him like “Imagine that ambiance is here and I am ready to listen you” speak now. Immediately he asked me what to speak and I said tension. This is what he spoked about tension.

“Ha, people!, he wants me to talk about tension. He wants to control his tension and he came here. You all want to reduce and control your tension. That is the reason you came here and you all believe me that this man, myself can reduce and control your tension. Now this is my tension on reducing your tension”. Hows that speech? Imagine the same speech in a hall covered with white cloths. A mild sitar music and no sound other than that. Probably he will sound to be a great Yogi for all the people and they will listen to him. And when he speaks, he comes in a white long cloth and when he comes out, he comes out with modern costumes!

Live for yourself. Life is a mixture of happiness, sorrows, burdens, frustration and fame. It will be good only if you have all these essence. Else you will taste only same and nothing will be interesting in your life. Manage your skills and habits. Show your feelings at least to yourself and never get compromised with your faults. Last but not the least, Yoga is always good for you and you can attain its full effect only if you dedicate yourself to it. Without your involvement fully, you cannot get any effect for life long.

I had a small hunch in my mind saying that my mobile didn’t go away from me. You could feel it rather than explaining it. I waited for a day so that I can investigate the local guys and maid who were there that morning. The next day I launched a complain in nearby police station. Wow, they took my complaint as if they gonna act fast. That was the time I shifted my carrier from ITES to IT. New office, new surrounding, colleagues. I couldn’t show how I missed my mobile. My mom missed my mobile more than me.

I had installed a software (anti-theft) in my mobile which will warn when a sim card is changed in my mobile. You can simply call it as daddy of Mobile tracking systems which was later introduced in samsung mobiles. I didn’t get any warning message. I was giving up my hope day by day. 10 days later, my sister got a message from my software! oooww. I was happy that I got the entire details of the person who was using my mobile. This is where the damn problem started. I made a stupid act by contacting the police station where I logged in my complaint.

I had all the details of the person. How come? I called up the number which I recieved from my software and spoke as an executive of a private bank. Simple, I got the details. If a person says to you like “Dude, you have a work to do. I have completed 95% of it. All you need is to verify and execute”. Will you take this shot or not? If I was given that chance, I would definetly take it. But when I stepped into the station, I was bribbed rs50 for water bottle. Then they took my complaint (duplicate copy which I had as they lost my org).

I was insisting them continuously that I have all the details and you need to just grab my mobile from the person on their way. They told all crap reasons for me and I was highly frustrated bcoz I was recieving alerts from my sister. I gave up my hope as they were expecting huge amount as bribe. Then my saviour came. His name is Gnani, a journalist for the past 30 years. I was just telling him that we should not go to police station if we lose anything.

Then the rapid action started! I was brought to Assistant Commisioner’s notice directly due to my influence with the journalist people. I met him and explained him about this software. He was quiet impressed with it. I took immediate action and I got my mobile back with 48 hours. Exactly one month I was not having my N70.People are not aware that there is a division in Cyber Crime dealing with mobile theft and other cyber crimes. The mobile was in Thirupur, far away from chennai and AC took spl care to retrieve it back. I was interviewed in Indian Express and Junior Vikatan. It was quiet struggle for me.

Never Ever Give Up! This is what I learned from it. But all these quotes will strike your mind when you have good back up power like I had. This would be my moral.

   

 Hi all, after a long break I am getting down to blog. Couple of months ago, I posted a topic regarding relationship. And I really got few true comments. The main one was “Correct my language”.

 Writing a blog with excellent word power? I welcome your comments and critics. But to all my friends, I am good at English, etc as I was in a BPO for 18 months communicating with Americans. Oh, so If am able to communicate with an American, am I good @ English? No. When I started this blog, the very first thing strike is breaking the grammar and vocal bury. And if you have time, please get the meaning for the word “Emancipate” (name of my blog). That’s why I was free from language barriers. I take English as only a language like Tamil.
Okay. So, I am giving a post now with the language people expect. This is just to know that I can write in this way too (good or bad English?) without any preparations!
                 
                 What is Happiness in life? You are searching for it? Then you must read this blog. The pursuit of happiness is a matter of choice. It is a positive attitude we consciously choose to express. It is not a gift that gets delivered to our doorstep each morning, nor does it come through window. And I am certain that our circumstances are just a small part of what makes us joyful. If we wait for them to get just right, we will never find lasting joy.
 
                 The pursuit of happiness is an inward journey. Our minds are like programs awaiting the code that will determine behaviors; like bank vaults awaiting our deposits. If we regularly deposit positive, encouraging, and uplifting thoughts, if we continue to bite our lips just before we begin to grumble and complain, if we shoot down that seemingly harmless negative though as it germinates, we will find that there is much to rejoice about! 

When someone is not well mentally and if they feel comfortable in telling what they feel, you are really gifted. People were saying me a lot. Infact sharing a lot. When i discussed with one of my good friend, she told why to waste time. Yes, may be it was literally waste of time. But it matters what we think and do.

I bet everyone in this world have someone with them, with whom they can share and get the moral support! No one can deny that. For just namesake, they can say i dont have anyone and I dont want anyone. A person can be like that only he tends to be alone and more matured with his thoughts. All need to share something to someone. Problem may be with their home, parents, relationships or friends!

But if someone close to you is not sharing things, then dont get bugged. They may shared their some other personel long time ago to you and now they dont. Its the way they feel comfortable to say things to you. Be ourselves. Definetly at times we get hurt in these things. Stop feeling for that and thatz the only thing, we can do for this!

Realtionships may be equal to moral support and i can definetly say that Moral support is not equal to relationship.

Once my mom asked me which part of your body is not selfish. I was thinking for the whole day and could’nt find an answer. Atlast my mom told, our shoulder is the only part which is not selfish. I asked why. She replied simply, when some is not well or cries or any kind of bad phase, your shoulder will automatically comes forward to give them a rest. You would have felt this with your mom or friends or anyone. Or you will feel in the future. Your shoulder comes in front for all these. Even you hug them, your shoulder gives them the rest. I cant conclude anything on this. Will be continued…..

People where encouraging and all over the theater, it was filled with applause! They didn’t see it as movie. They saw it as a game and all this game is about the 3 things I like. Motivational, Attitude and Team Spirit! The way they showed the team work was fabulous. I really felt that I went for a good movie and Sharukh, has really (more) stepped ahead with his performance. The fire was seen in his eyes!

I enjoyed the show all because of the excellent movie and great audience. I felt myself that I was sitting in the corner of my seat at the hockey stadium. I was wavering hands and cheering up for India. Each player sacrificed too many things in life and they hit the game. Taking movie about motivation is not so easy and the director inspired each one’s spirit today. He won and I am damn sure about it!

                  Now, I know that I am a good friend of all. At times, I may even slip from this word. But not always. I think no one can keepin their hands straight to heart and say, I am good friend and good human to all. Funny. We ourselves can justify. But to others, we do not need to say that we are wrong. Its just for our sense!

                     Helping and caring only is friendship? Apart from that,  you need to understand, which is the main part. If your good friend says something, first dnt get angry or irriatted. Think why or what made him to say like that! Simple.. Understand your friend!

                     When you are frustrated, first do not change your face reactions. It is the first notable, I mean very notable thing others observe! Angry is some what like going to loo!You can save it and then show it later when you are comfortable. Simple. Even some things do not last longer once you put them aside. You may get relaxed also!

                     No one can say for what they get bugged. Better be in the form that no one should judge us. why the heck they want to know about me? If they are my friends, then they will definetly understand me and i have no work to explain them about why i do certain things. See, here is where the problem comes. People who say that they are close to us, never understand us. According to them, close means being with them always and they tell everything to them; will not listen what others say!

                                           It is not called close friend! Understanding is the better part were you do not need to probe your frnd for any action that he makes, coz you understand him. See, my frustration got me somewhere! But yes, this is also frustration stuff. I would like to write more about these stuffs!

When you are in a place, everyone should enjoy your presence and when you are not there, they should miss you! Make the place entertained and happy. That will show your presence. Making happy is not meant that you should be close enough.

No one need to understand you. Never make any one to judge you at any point of time and thats none of their business. Be what you are and move with people accordingly.

“LIVE AND ENJOY FOR THIS MOMENT”

Be sure with your work! Not to postpont anything. Work while you work and fiddle around when you are free!