Emancipate

December 4, 2007

Being alone

Filed under: Live your life — viki @ 9:03 pm

l4bc6dxqwy.jpgBeing alone is something everyone needs from time to time. Being alone is the very creator of our character. Everyone fears being alone at some point in their life, whether it be going down to eat or walking to the store. Everyone wants someone else to be there as a back-up, as a provider of strength. But, the times that I do things alone are the things that I feel I accomplished the most. Because, I provided all of that strength myself, on my own.

While being alone seems to be quite miserable at times, if you look at it hard enough, much of our realizations are done when we are alone with our thoughts. We make our most important decisions in our heads while we are alone. It is the basis of building our character. If we can find the strength to be comfortable and happy when we are alone, not only will we grow to be stronger people, but we will have more time to our thoughts and more power to express our ideas and not be swayed by others choices.

“The person who has not learned to be happy and content while being completely alone for an hour, a day, or a week, has missed life’s greatest serenity.”

–H. Clay Tale

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4 Comments »

  1. Partly agree and partly disagree..
    I agree that we make good decisions while being alone…
    Free from suggestions and advices, we decide our life and we make our own decisions which happens to be the right decision.
    But definitely there were times when I hated being alone…All the time we can’t be alone
    Definitely we need the CARE, LOVE and a person to share our happy moments as well as sad moments.Only people who were left alone for life time know the pain of being alone.

    To conclude Being alone is good for a short span but for lifetime is impossible.

    Comment by Subha — December 5, 2007 @ 9:40 am | Reply

  2. Viki r u trying to say what u felt or its a general Fact that everybody felt wat do u say ATTIDUDE?

    Comment by Prabhu.R — December 12, 2007 @ 6:36 pm | Reply

  3. I cant totally say its a general feeling or my fact. My focus is when you are alone, you will achieve or think or do something which will be appreciated by all. I am not stressing everyone to be alone always, as Clay says may be an hour or a day, or a week we should be alone so that we may come across certain things. And my fact is I always like being alone! General fact is to learn to be alone at times to find the new feeling in yourself!

    Comment by viki — December 12, 2007 @ 7:47 pm | Reply

  4. U mean to say that u want to be alone all the time and if we r alone we will always make a right decision. Is it so?

    General fact is to learn to be alone at times to find the new feeling in yourself!

    what r u tryin to say above New Feeling in the Sense is it Good or Bad?

    Comment by Prabhu.R — December 13, 2007 @ 7:46 am | Reply


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