All these days I thought, helping and sharing things was friendship! A person can be close, if they share us all. Probably I thot helpin comes first and tell us how we are. I was totally wrong or may be right! I got a sudden thought couple of days ago. Do i support my friends? Morally? I felt that if i was good in supporting my frnds morally. When we support our friend morally, we will be a good friend?
When someone is not well mentally and if they feel comfortable in telling what they feel, you are really gifted. People were saying me a lot. Infact sharing a lot. When i discussed with one of my good friend, she told why to waste time. Yes, may be it was literally waste of time. But it matters what we think and do.
I bet everyone in this world have someone with them, with whom they can share and get the moral support! No one can deny that. For just namesake, they can say i dont have anyone and I dont want anyone. A person can be like that only he tends to be alone and more matured with his thoughts. All need to share something to someone. Problem may be with their home, parents, relationships or friends!
But if someone close to you is not sharing things, then dont get bugged. They may shared their some other personel long time ago to you and now they dont. Its the way they feel comfortable to say things to you. Be ourselves. Definetly at times we get hurt in these things. Stop feeling for that and thatz the only thing, we can do for this!
Realtionships may be equal to moral support and i can definetly say that Moral support is not equal to relationship.
Once my mom asked me which part of your body is not selfish. I was thinking for the whole day and could’nt find an answer. Atlast my mom told, our shoulder is the only part which is not selfish. I asked why. She replied simply, when some is not well or cries or any kind of bad phase, your shoulder will automatically comes forward to give them a rest. You would have felt this with your mom or friends or anyone. Or you will feel in the future. Your shoulder comes in front for all these. Even you hug them, your shoulder gives them the rest. I cant conclude anything on this. Will be continued…..
Interesting….
Comment by bindhu — September 2, 2007 @ 6:37 pm |
Good one but i suppose u had dragged the lines saying the same manytimes… It would be good if u had shorten. As well its written with some normal english….Y do not u use some good enlish words…..
I really and 100% accept ur Mom’s words….Everybody’s shoulders are never Selfish….I experieced it many times…
Comment by Indraneel — September 3, 2007 @ 10:21 am |
Yup neel. I didnt find hard in writing in good english words. Word power is not difficult to use. My intensions are simple and may be i would use a english words in the future posts.
Comment by vikram — September 3, 2007 @ 10:26 am |
Relationship…. good topic to discuss about and all your points are agreeable. Words need not be framed and phrased to express our feelings. It should be understandable to the person who read it. That’s it. Sure… each and every human has and will have a person to rely on… Being alone is not so easy…
Comment by Subha — November 26, 2007 @ 10:50 am |
It is true.. guess what? I found something similar… it doesn’t mean you’re good at providing moral support ONLY when people share things with you…there are times when the closest of friends too may not share certain things [situations vary] Moral support in such cases lies in understanding people’s silence too. It needn’t necessarily be that best of friends should empty their hearts to each other
Comment by Lavanya — February 19, 2009 @ 1:03 pm |