Are you a good friend? Have you ever thinked about it? We always used to make critics and tease people when they are wrong or not doing things correctly. There is a famous saying in English, “When others are wrong, we seek justice and when we are wrong, we seek compromise”. This is what we call as human mentality. I was a bad friend for all till 3 years before! Now, I am just tellin my friends what I am and making them clear. I didnt say to explain yourself, but you can tell them what they can expect from you and not to expect. Thatz better, I feel.
Now, I know that I am a good friend of all. At times, I may even slip from this word. But not always. I think no one can keepin their hands straight to heart and say, I am good friend and good human to all. Funny. We ourselves can justify. But to others, we do not need to say that we are wrong. Its just for our sense!
Helping and caring only is friendship? Apart from that, you need to understand, which is the main part. If your good friend says something, first dnt get angry or irriatted. Think why or what made him to say like that! Simple.. Understand your friend!
yes even im agreeing to your point my friend but in my view i can say that as for as friendship is concerned both people should come in same frequency most of the time and for me i will share my secrets,fun,grief,ecstacy etc to one of my above said quality people very deeply
Comment by Prabhu.R — August 13, 2007 @ 9:58 am |