How do you feel when you are frustrated? Do you have any spl rating? Something like amount of frustration? I beleive that once you get bugged or frustrated, anger plays a major role in that. Quiet often, I get angry on myself if i am frustrated or bugged by some one. Later I learnt how not to show face to others when we are bugged.
When you are frustrated, first do not change your face reactions. It is the first notable, I mean very notable thing others observe! Angry is some what like going to loo!You can save it and then show it later when you are comfortable. Simple. Even some things do not last longer once you put them aside. You may get relaxed also!
No one can say for what they get bugged. Better be in the form that no one should judge us. why the heck they want to know about me? If they are my friends, then they will definetly understand me and i have no work to explain them about why i do certain things. See, here is where the problem comes. People who say that they are close to us, never understand us. According to them, close means being with them always and they tell everything to them; will not listen what others say!
It is not called close friend! Understanding is the better part were you do not need to probe your frnd for any action that he makes, coz you understand him. See, my frustration got me somewhere! But yes, this is also frustration stuff. I would like to write more about these stuffs!
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Comment by Prabhu.R — August 9, 2007 @ 10:24 am |
hmmm i do take in a few things from ur post!! But u always can’t be a duckhead to keep ur frustrations within urself.. instead u need to pour all tht out and stay peacefully…wich would make u all the more comfortable.. But friednship can never be defined in any way. Neither the amount of understnading nor the level of expectations. Instead, take a deep breath n calm down. Try bringing ur tension level down, u can do it. And then analyse well on the base.. I know!! i know quiet well, its easy while we say things to others. But not neither too difficult nor impossible….
Comment by Priyadarshini — August 9, 2007 @ 6:59 pm |
yes mam.. I didnt mean that we should always be duckhead. If you dont wanna keep things, even frustration, you can show them off..I didnt say to keep the frustration with yourself! All i say is pour it out at right time! frustration!!!!
Comment by viki — August 9, 2007 @ 7:46 pm |
Frustration… I think I should comment on this topic when I get bugged and frustrated.
Comment by Subha — November 26, 2007 @ 11:13 am |