Being selfish is wrong? If a good thing is happening for us, we can be selfish? I am tired of thinking what to answer for these questions. But I am 50/50. If I am selfish, it may hurt people who are doing no bad to me and people who never understand us will never care vice versa. But to manage relationships, at times we have to be selfish and there is nothing wrong in that. We cannot expect all people to understand us in all the times. Being non emotional is good, but be sure that you are not hiding your feelings and trying to be non emotional. Express it, not too expressive!.
When you are in a place, everyone should enjoy your presence and when you are not there, they should miss you! Make the place entertained and happy. That will show your presence. Making happy is not meant that you should be close enough.
No one need to understand you. Never make any one to judge you at any point of time and thats none of their business. Be what you are and move with people accordingly.
“LIVE AND ENJOY FOR THIS MOMENT”
Be sure with your work! Not to postpont anything. Work while you work and fiddle around when you are free!
This is Good
Comment by Indraneel — August 2, 2007 @ 3:39 pm |
Awesome!!!!!
Comment by Prabhu.R — August 3, 2007 @ 2:26 pm |
Fully agreed…. We can’t be selfless all the times. At times better to be selfish instead of pretending as though we are not… Extent of Selfishness – till it hurts others…
Comment by Subha — November 26, 2007 @ 11:26 am |